According to the paper the separation from his family over the past years has been difficult for him, especially considering how close he is to his family. Also we have one beautiful child who he very much wants to raise among family.  .The conflict situation we are facing seems simple: do we go or do we stay? However we were unable to come to a decision as he firmly sticks by what he wants and the reporter refuses to so easily pack up and leave everything he has worked hard for behind. We are yet to come to an effective and healthy solution to which we both agree. The application of the conflict triangle can be seen as part of the situation in the way the presence of its three interrelated dimensions is undeniable. substance, procedure and relationship. The substantive dimension is a reflection of the concrete content of the conflict. that is, to be closer to my husband’s family and friends we will have to move to his home country whereas if he wants to get my PhD from here. The other dimension is that of the procedural dimension which depicts the process that is used to make the decision. This can be the intense long talks that we have, the number of pros and cons lists which we have made over the course of this entire conflict and the conversations that have taken place. all of which that have been conducted with the intent of solving this problem.